gift wrapping. part1

hello everyone. 
well I guess today's post is more interesting than others I had made before and its about 
GIFT WRAPPING!

There are many events on which we give gifts to our dear one's and you have to think harder, what to buy for them. when you finally buy something, you are another trouble and thats its wrapping! Most of the time when we ask to wrap the gift from the shop we have bought the gift. the charges are double, triple, there is nothing called extra ordinary. 
Gift wrapping is your  presentation for someone special and there must be some unique wrapping which gain their attention wooowwwww! its cool & exciting!
from now on my upcoming post are about gift wrapping.
you definitely love them all as they are super easy and highly inexpensive. creative and impressive . like my all posts I really don't like to make things which become headache for my followers and my students. I always say, just look around there are many options are available which are free of cost or at least quite less expensive use them and make something unique.

EASTERN MEHNDI TATTOOS ON YOUR GIFT WRAP:

Mehndi is used in Eastern especially in Indian culture on celebrations and girls make different designs on their hands arms and feet. its inexpensive thing. you can use it for decoration of your gift and its look amazing and like a eastern gift to someone, perfect for holle or eid. you can give to some one else as a gift in your cultural way.its up to you how you are going to use it.can make design for Christmas as well.  it looks so nice. have a look!
Use cone mehndi and before applying it use it on a rough page as I did it to make it accurately. have a look! I shown you both in the pic, the one I draw as a rough one and the second one is which applied  on the wrapped gift paper.

daughters!

"IF GIVING FOOD,SHELTER, CLOTHS AND EDUCATION IS A FAVOR TO A DAUGHTER THAN I WISH DAUGHTER WOULDN'T BORN"

discrimination kills a child at home and it last longer than you expect

A conversation happen in front of me and the daughter said that when her mother like always counts the things she or the parents had done for her.Parents no doubt do lots of sacrifices and face lots of hardships in growing up their kids. No one is like parents who take your responsibility and  provide you all which is in their reach.

but the matter I am discussing here is the gender discrimination exist in parents. sometimes they prefer a boy kid on a girl. still in underdeveloped countries this thing is so common. Its become worse when they give every thing to a boy kid and give a girl a sign of inferiority, discriminate her own the basis of gender. and when she ask that I also need that ...why not I can go or I also deserve to get higher education , my shoes are tore or the dresses are getting dull. Parents start telling them what they have done for them. they mention those things which are the right of a child cloth food etc.

In underdeveloped countries this situation is quite miserable. 

One of my student who was hardworking but suffering from the same problem, I got her situation by her words as she always feel shy to participate in any activity and whenever I ask her, she told me that her mother wouldn't allow her. she was the only daughter others were sons. I discussed it with the parents on that time and now I am feeling a spark in her personality . she is improving day by day.

Its not that I am a very nice person and admire myself here but the discrimination which starts from your own home kill you thousands of times and make you feel regret to be born as a daughter.

I can't understand why here parents believe that their son will be very nice with them and they try to give things to them and never feel a single time that a child of the same age, sitting with her brother and having a desire to have the same thing ( mostly a toy, chocolates, etc) how that immature mind take such harsh realities of life. with the same sense of discrimination it is so obvious that may be a parent did good for her but her personality and heart is so broken that she would never feel any of your thing except those bitter feeling which she may faced daily from her childhood till now.

Daughters are so loving and if you don't have something they understand so quickly and never insist for a thing. my grandmother did the same mistake in her life. she had given major share to her sons in food, in higher studies but she was a rational lady. her elder daughters got education till school but the younger daughters got education to university level, they are doing job on a respectable posts and now caring her mother better than her sons.My grandmother said once to me" Wish I did a mistake on believing this mis-perception that sons are better than a daughter but now my elder daughters serve me younger daughters too.These things  are learned with age and now I know that daughters are much caring"

sons are also nice, loving and helpful. but my topic for today is the discrimination at home and the statement which I had heard a couple of days ago, really made my heart heavy.(which I have mentioned in the start)

Give your child a chance to prove herself. we are not living in caves anymore. look around you whether its developing or developed country. If there is such discrimination, do help the child to come over it and keep shining..

A teacher's quality!

Every country has its own environment , an environment in which our vision and opinion build. our actions and reactions reflect our surroundings. now a days when I observe people, we have filled our hearts with unnecessary hate on the grounds of regional, cultural or religion. I guess we all have some reservations about any community or on a region. It may be due to the incidents take place or the time we had suffered by them.

hate is something that steals away your goodness. you may express it time to time whenever you meet a person of same region or religion, you have reservations . people really don't admit that,. ,but if you observe them, they have hate but they don't know really.

Today I am talking about the most important quality a teacher must have, its to be indifferent when you enter in a school.Think like you don't have a religion or if you have than you are a Christian when you are dealing a Christian child, a Hindu when dealing a Hindu kid, a Muslim to Muslim chap. if your mind and heart is not pure and you are hiding hate in it. it will or it must come in front of you when you are not in good mood or the kid is not doing your assigned work perfectly.

when I was a kid (near past :) ) I had suffered by this discrimination and I know how it would feel. when a teacher belongs to a majority's religion or region,how she/he intentionally or unintentionally becomes the part of hate. 

if you really want to adopt education as a worship. whatever happening in the world is none of your business.love your students as your own kid and never never discriminate them. discrimination almost kills a child.

I am doing the same in my school. I know my all school's children and I am getting the same in return. children are really angels. they express burntly,

what they feel. I really love when they express their love in morning greetings, giving me flowers and cards. 

Be a nice teacher, build your students confidence and personality without any discrimination. Next time when you enter in your class, take a look, may be there only a one Christian, Hindu or Muslim child, feeling insecure and isolated. spare some time for him and talk with him.boost his confidence and generate an environment in which everyone accept each other. will you?!!