teenage is the age of anxiety, day dreaming, emotional and passionate. A teenage can dare to go up to any extend. do you ever think that the psychological stage of a teenage can lead him to suicide.
yes it can. right now a social network game blue whale is accused to promoting the trend of suicide in teenage. around 150 people were killed by this haunted game. the game end in few days and it gives different tasks to the player like do cut your skin or make a tattoo on your arm. the take personal data which they threat to public in case you leave the game. at the end of the game, the last task is to kill yourself.
teenage love to dare and they accept challenges very quickly. isolate teenage may have more chances to be pray of such sites. parenthood is not a day job. you have to be around your kid all the time till they get mature enough to understand what is right for them. the problem begins when child reach adolescence, they start their first argue that they knows everything. As much I spend time with kids in school. kids like to learn in a friendly way rather than force them to do something. they will not listen to you. the best way is to train them from beginning so that their mind shaped by you instead leave them in beginning and start teaching them when they developed their habits. changing once's nature is much difficult task. you can modify them but can't change them completely.
my suggestions to parents
- put your computer in living room where your child can be in front of you and be a friend of your kid on social media so that you can know who is in his contacts and what kind of aptitudes and attitudes they have.
- always make them feel that you are always there for him.
- be patient as this age group is so much emotional, they may misbehave but you have to tolerate them. they need you.
- start giving your child time, make family gatherings. go to park, movie together. make them feel that they are especial
- train your child from beginning. so that they get your vision from initial years.
my condolence with the families who lost their world (child ) by such thriller games. the game company said that they didn't incline kids to suicide but its also a fact that around 150 teenagers prayed by it. its possible that the above reasons may cause him to make his life trilling , important and ambitious by following such task.
- kids of this age need appreciation. let give them chance to prove themselves.don't criticize them all the time. if they do something good, must be rewarded.
- don't give physical punishments to your kid. it disturb them completely and they became emotional and depressed which cause to any misfortune to him.
stay blessed. hope so my highlighted facts may help some family today. stay blessed. don't forget to tell what changes you have planned to protect your child from such dangers.
xoxo
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